Posted: April 10, 2013, 1:00 p.m. PDT
A rescuer who calls herself an avian behaviorist told me that because parrots are flock animals, a person can't work a full-time job and provide a good home for a single parrot. She runs a bird rescue, and she offered to take my African grey parrot so he can have the company of other parrots. I really love my grey and the thought of giving him up makes me cry ... but I want what is best for him. I can't afford to properly maintain a second parrot, so getting another one is not an option. Am I being cruel and selfish to keep my parrot? Is being alone while I'm at work harming him?
I appreciate this question, because this subject surfaces repeatedly. I do not agree with this “rescuer/avian behaviorist” at all. Yes, most companion species of parrots are flock animals, but having multiple parrots is not the only way to deal with this issue.
Get your bird some interactive toys so she can keep herself busy while you are away.
First, I wish to commend you for recognizing your limitations to add another bird to your household. Too many people get multiple birds before realizing that they have too many. Upon hearing I have one parrot, people often confide that they wish they had also stopped at one bird. I cannot express how much this saddens me, because a little restraint and forethought would've prevented their current situation.
An Avian Behaviorist?
I am compelled to question the credentials of those who label themselves as “avian behaviorists” for two reasons:
First, there are approximately 8,600 species of birds on this planet (almost three times as many as mammalian species) and, with about 320 psittacine species, the parrot family comprises only 0.04 percent of that huge number. Consequently, it is totally inaccurate to state that they work with “avians” if they work only with parrots.
Second, to call oneself an animal “behaviorist” in the United States, a person must have an advanced degree in ethology (animal behavior). While I have been working full time for 15 years with companion parrot behavior, I have no such degree, and neither do most of my colleagues. Consequently, we call ourselves “parrot behavior consultants.”
I seriously question the motivations of a “rescuer” who encourages people to give up their parrots. In my experience, a good rescuer does the opposite. Through education and outreach, good rescuers do everything possible to keep a parrot in a loving home, not remove it. It makes no sense for rescue people to want to increase the homeless rate for parrots!
Indeed, if you are considering giving up a parrot, contact a reputable rescue organization for help in finding viable alternatives. (Always fully investigate and/or visit a rescue organization beforehand.)
Just One Of The Flock
As for parrots never being happy living away from other parrots, I disagree. People have kept parrots for thousands of years, and there was never an injunction stating that parrots should never live as single birds. It is also important to note the number of single birds in this country that appear happy and healthy in every way. I have met hundreds of happy, single parrots. This would be impossible if a parrot could not thrive without another parrot for company.
In my opinion, it is not true that all parrots need other parrots for company, and encouraging people with good, loving homes to give up their single parrots to a “rescue” organization seems to be similar to telling people with a single child that their youngster will be happier in an orphanage.
So, enjoy your grey; and take pride in the good home you give him. Truly, he is a lucky parrot to have someone as obviously caring as you.
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